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I’ve been blogging long enough now to post the third installment in my series of posts remembering people, places, and things that Boston has lost since I moved in.

Nostalgia. Memorabilia. Whatever synonym you use, it’s likely to evoke the same bittersweet morose feeling of loss. So many good times, so many memories, all gone to seed.

At the same time, a city—or at least a living one—needs to change, grow, and evolve to stay interesting and vital. Still, it’s hard to feel as sanguine about new, unfamiliar places as the comfortable, memory-filled things they replace.

This week provided a particularly sad example, in the sudden shuttering of the venerable Boston Phoenix, a free alternative tabloid newspaper that guided two and a half generations of young adults through the vibrant if chaotic maelstrom of Boston youth culture.

The Phoenix was the heart of my Boston experience through my 20s, 30s, and 40s. Clubs, bands, restaurants, classical concerts, lectures, readings, exhibits… If it was worth doing—even if it was way too outré for the mainstream media to touch—you’d find it listed in the Phoenix.

Although I’ve aged and my life has become more mainstream, losing the Phoenix is no less painful. If nothing else, it represented a connection, and sense of continuity with the person I used to be. It was one of the threads that still connected me with that other Ornoth, the younger, more social, and more visceral one whom I grew out of.

But it’s just the most recent example of the Buddhist law of impermanence. Here are a few others, just to remind you that nothing lasts forever, and the great danger of binding your happiness to something impermanent.

Restaurants
Bouchée French restaurant on Newbury
Brown Sugar Cafe in Fenway
Bombay Club in Harvard Square
The Greenhouse in Harvard Square
Pomme Frites in Harvard Square
Brigham’s Ice Cream
Tealuxe on Newbury
Geoffrey's Cafe
Cottonwood Cafe on Berkeley
Herrell’s ice cream in Allston and Harvard Square
J.P. Licks ice cream on Newbury Street
Carberry’s Bakery in Central
Allston’s Sports Depot
Anthony’s Pier 4
The Otherside Cafe
Bhindi Bazaar
Island Hopper
Morton’s Steakhouse
Locke-Ober restaurant
Upper Crust pizzeria
Hard Rock Cafe in Back Bay
Ronnarong Thai restaurant in Union Square
Club Casablanca in Harvard Square
Joe’s American Bar & Grille on Dartmouth (relocated to Exeter)
Papa Razzi Italian restaurant (relocated to Newbury from Dartmouth)
Nightlife
The Kells
TC’s Lounge
Harpers Ferry
Businesses
Pearl Arts & Crafts in Central
Bowl & Board
HMV
Judi Rotenburg Gallery
Nora’s convenience store on Newbury Street
Compleat Strategist on Mass Ave.
Globe Corner Bookstore
Borders bookstores in DTC and Back Bay
Mcintyre & Moore used books in Porter
Copley Flair
Daddy’s Junky Music
Filene’s Basement
Anthropologie
Best Buy at Newbury & Mass Ave.
Fung Wah Chinatown bus to New York
Louis Boston (relocated to Southie)
Bob Slate Stationers (temporarily?)
Media
WBCN
WFNX
Stuff Magazine
The Boston Phoenix
People
Ted Kennedy
Charles Sarkis and the Back Bay Restaurant Group
Government
Massachusetts Turnpike Authority
Metropolitcan District Commission
FastLane

If you’re interested in other stuff that Boston has lost, check out the previous posts in this series: one from 2009 and another from 2005.

Updates: All Asia Cafe, Cambridgeport Saloon, Thailand Cafe, Charley's restaurant on Newbury Street, Crossroads Irish Pub, Bostone Pizza, An Tua Nua pub, Anthony's Pier 4, the Purple Shamrock, Hilltop Steak House in Saugus, Hi-Fi Pizza in Central, Calumet Photo, Steve's Greek restaurant on Newbury Street, Daisy Buchanan's on Newbury Street, India Samraat, Cactus Club, J. Pace & Son North End grocery, Amtrak's ticket office in Back Bay station, Louis Boston, Louie the Tricycle Guy, International Bike in Brighton & Newton, Forum restaurant on Boylston, Bayside Expo Center, MakerBot on Newbury Street, TT the Bears nightclub, Tedeschi convenience stores, the entire food court at the Prudential mall, Berk's shoes in Harvard Square, Church nightclub (formerly Linwood Grill), Scissors & Pie pretentious pizza hovel. Impending closures: Johnny D's, Medieval Manor.

Last weekend’s Pittsburgh trip: not much to talk about.

Saturday morning, a package I’d ordered arrived: new Teva sandals. I put them on and went for lunch at the Prudential mall food court, which was overrun with costumed attendees of the Anime Boston convention. Pretty surreal.

Joy of Life
Allegheny Cemetery
Pumpy cat
Prawn the cat
Full Photoset

Grabbed my bag and left home, but on the way out, I received another package I’d been waiting for: a second battery for my video camera. Threw that in my bag and made my way to Logan.

The flight was fine except the descent into Pittsburgh was bumpy due to wind. The woman next to me squealed on touch-down. Weather a balmy 82 degrees but overcast.

Hit a grocery store that Inna wanted to visit, then dinner at Maharaja, an Indian restaurant tucked inside a Days Inn by the highway. It was set in a long-abandoned ballroom, with used dinner plates littering several of the many empty tables. To my horror, Inna violated my first rule of Indian—never order the buffet!—and it delivered in spades. Spots in the steam table labeled rice and naan were empty, and what food there was looked like it had been sitting on the Sterno for months. At least they didn’t serve Goat Bone Curry like Ajanta used to!

Since Inna’s mother was traveling, we stopped by to feed her cats Theo and Pumpy, then called it a day.

Sunday was Easter, so I tried to get Inna to sample a chocolate bunny, but she refused. We spent a mostly lazy day doing not much of anything, since most places were closed for the holiday. We walked around Shadyside and had ice cream at Oh Yeah!, then drove around at random, ending up having a nice walk around the reservoir at the summit of Highland Park.

After feeding mom’s cats, we went to a place called Thai Cuisine on East Liberty, which was unmemorable, then home so that Inna could study.

Monday I walked down to the Fifth Third Bank and snagged some small bills, then off for ice cream at Klavon’s. Drove around Lawrenceville, and saw three deer in Allegheny Cemetery. Back in Squirrel Hill, we stopped at Radio Shack to pick up Livestrong wristbands for the cats to play with, and chocolate for us.

Dinner was a burger at the Elbow Room in Shadyside, which wasn’t bad, then we went home and played “Wits & Wagers” and some “World of Goo” game on Inna’s Wii.

Tuesday I packed up and we hit the Waterworks Mall where Inna shopped for clothing while I picked up some Eneloop batteries and found a kitten to play with at Petco. We made our way out to Moon Township and had a tasty lunch at Mad Mex before saying our goodbyes at the airport.

All told, it was a very low-key visit, which seems pretty typical of Pittsburgh. Atypical, however, were the mediocre meals, since my experience has been that the thing Pittsburgh usually gets right is its food. But the weather was pretty gorgeous for early April, which made a nice change from the freezing cold of my previous two visits. Mostly it was good to see Inna, since she’s been buried up to her eyeballs all year with work for the one-year sustainability MBA program she’s enrolled in.

Four years ago I made a post entitled “What a Pillar of Salt Sees”, which enumerated dozens of Boston landmarks that had disappeared. As time went on and more things changed, I added a paragraph of addendum.

At this point, that list has grown long enough to justify another whole new list to note the people, places, and things that are no longer part of the city’s fabric.

That said, here’s some of what’s changed since 2005:

Bands
Bim Skala Bim
Clubs
Man Ray
the Plough & Stars (since returned)
the Linwood Grill
the Littlest Bar
Avalon
Axis
Restaurants
Thornton's Fenway Grill
El Pelón Taquería
Rod-Dee Thai Cuisine Fenway
Sorrento's Italian Gourmet
the Cambridgeside Galleria Panda Express
Friday's on Newbury Street
Newbury Pizza
the Linwood Grill
James Hook Lobster Co.
Rangoli Indian Restaurant
the Friendly Eating Place
Cafechina
Commonwealth Brewery
Businesses
Baybank
Bank of Boston
BankBoston
Fleet Bank
FleetBoston
Sugar Heaven
Trani Ice Cream n-jectibles
Allston Beat
Krispy Kreme
Gargoyles Grotesques and Chimeras on Newbury Street
Grand Opening
Quantum Books
Marty's Liquors in Coolidge Corner
Martignetti's liquors
Coolidge Corner Barnes & Noble
Virgin Megastores Newbury
Tower Records on Newbury Street
Tweeter Etc.
Media
Boston Globe's Calendar and City Weekly sections
People
Red Auerbach
Miscellaneous
the “Partisans” statue from the Boston Common
the DuBarry mural
T tokens

More recent updates can be seen at this post from 2013.

Yesterday, [livejournal.com profile] modpixie posted to the [livejournal.com profile] b0st0n community a list of Boston sights and sounds that no longer exist. It sparked enough nostalgia that I thought it might be interesting to set down a list of the things I’ve seen here that are, sadly, either endangered, going, or gone.

There are two lists. The first column enumerates those elements of Boston that are already historical data. The second column is a list of things which are currently in the process of failing. Most of those are still here—at least nominally—but I think they are endangered species that could disappear tomorrow.

Long GoneGoing?
Bands
The Cars
Cliffs of Dooneen
Concussion Ensemble
EBN: Emergency Broadcast Network
Steady Earnest
The Allstonians
The Bentmen
Bim Skala Bim
The Mighty Mighty Bosstones
Powerman 5000
Clubs
Local 186
Mama Kin
The Rat
Venus de Milo
The Linwood Grill
Jacques
The Plough & Stars
Restaurants
33 Dunster
The Blue Diner
Bombay Bistro
Cafe Avventura
The Deli Haus
The old India Quality
Kebab-n-Kurry
Mehfil
The Rattlesnake Bar & Urban Canyon
Steve’s Ice Cream
Bartley’s Burger Barn
Herrell’s
Little Stevie’s
The Pour House
Rodizio @ Midwest Grill
Organizations
Bank of New England (BONE)
Filene’s Basement & bridal rush
Jordan Marsh
Lechmere
The MDC
NECCO
NYNEX
Stah Mahket
Tower Records Newbury
Waterstone’s Booksellers
Wordsworth Books
The Boston Bruins
Building 19
Coolidge Corner Theater
MFS
Newbury Comics
Places
The Boston Garden
The elevated Central Artery
The Fleet Center
The John Hancock Observatory
The DuBarry mural
The Haymarket
The old Northern Ave Bridge
Yawkey Way as a public way
Media
WSBK, WLVI
Mighty Mouse
Creature Double Feature
 
People
Bird, Parish, McHale
Bobby Orr, Terry O’reilly
Red Auerbach
The Woop-Woop Guy
Miscellaneous
Bowling under Fenway Park
Meeting people at the gate at Logan
MBTA tokens
The Mattapan High-Speed Line

More recent updates can be seen at this post from 2009 and this one from 2013.

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